What do you do if your ex has mutual friends?

What do you do if your ex has mutual friends?

Here’s how to remain with those friends so it’s not a disaster for both of you.

1. Don’t bad mouth your ex to anybody unless it’s your BFF.
2. Limit the time you spend talking about your ex.
3. Don’t ask endless questions about your ex—that’s as bad as cyber stalking.
4. Don’t make your friends take sides or put them in the middle.

Should you delete your ex’s friends from Facebook?

If you know reminders of your ex will upset you, don’t set yourself up to get hurt. Unless you genuinely want to stay friends with your ex’s friends, it’s probably best to remove them from your social (media) life.

Is it bad to be friends with your ex’s friends?

If you really want to keep some of your ex’s friends and it’s OK with them, be direct. You could send one of their friends a message saying you hope that one day you’ll be able to hang out again – but be respectful. They might need to check in with their friend, your ex, and see if they give their blessing.

Why is my ex contacting my friends?

They want to know how you’re doing, if you’re thriving post-breakup, or if maybe part of you misses them, too. It’s possible they want you back but are just too scared to reach out, so they’re trying to put some feelers out there by talking to your friends.

Should I cut off mutual friends with my ex?

At the same time, you shouldn’t expect these friends to take sides or to stop talking to your ex. “If you met them as a couple, you can’t expect them to cut off all ties to your ex,” Leckie advises. Getting your mutual friends involved in the unpleasant details will only make everyone uncomfortable.

How do you break up with a friend still?

I believe it is possible but there are some rules you need to follow if you want to keep the friendship.

1. Make sure you really want to be friends.
2. Don’t delay the breakup.
3. Give yourselves a break from each other.
4. Set clear boundaries.
5. Be considerate about dating.
6. Don’t let your curiosity get the better of you.

Should I stay Facebook friends with my ex?

A 2017 study from Kansas State University found that being friends with an ex on social media can have repercussions on your new relationship. “Some people have rules where they don’t mind if their partner is friends on social media with their exes, as long as they were friends before they dated,” Hershenson said.

Is it wrong to delete your ex from facebook?

“Post-breakup, you should remove anyone you had a long-term relationship with from your Facebook friends. On one hand, if you were broken up with, it can be painful to see what they’re doing without you. If you broke up with them, it can cause unnecessary drama if they can see what you’re doing without them.

Should I be friends with my ex on Facebook?

How do you know if your ex is still into you?

To figure out if your ex still likes you, watch their behavior to see how they’re acting toward you. Additionally, notice how often they communicate with you and the types of communication you have. As another option, talk to your family and friends to find out if they think your ex is still interested.

How do you know if your ex is testing you?

Last but not least, another of the signs your ex is testing you, is if they go hot and cold, or give you mixed signals. So for example, they could go from saying they still love you and miss you, to saying, that they still want to be with you – and you should probably stop speaking… only you don’t.